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How to have great sex?

Posted on: June 4, 2009 | By Maigal

bullet vibratorLet’s be honest girls — who has trouble reaching an orgasm with just plain old intercourse?  I’m sure most of you would say, “I do” because I have the same problem too.  Aren’t you sick of opening up your legs, getting stabbed by his penis while you are thinking when the hell is he going to be done?  Aren’t you sick of pretending to your man that he is some hot stud in bed as your pretend to moan and yell out “yeah baby, you are great, that’s right.. you got it…”, hoping he can cum faster and get the hell off you?  If your answer is yes, I have the perfect solution for you.

It’s called the Bullet vibrator — but I call it “My Little Helper”.  It’s a small, shape like a bullet with a wire attached to a remote where you control the strength of the vibration in the bullet.  During sex, you just need to place it near your clitoris. With the help of the bullet stimulating your clitoris and the penetration from your lover’s penis, this is the best combo ever.  I guarantee you’ll be screaming with satisfaction. I was.

Okay, I know what you are thinking: ‘I’m too embarassed to buy that.’ In my opinion, if you are old enough to have sex then you should be mature enough to go into a sex shop and pick out a toy you like.  You should even make it an event with your lover to visit some sex shops.  This could bring back some excitement and fun to your boring love life. Come on, who doesn’t like sex?   Another option is to shop online.  Avoid the discomfort of going into shops if you are really a prude. I got my own very own Bullet at   It’s a good site and the stuff there is relatively cheap. is also a good site too.

I hope this will help those curious ladies.


5 Responses to “How to have great sex?”

  1. troy
    July 9th, 2009 @ 5:12 pm

    So during the heat of the moment, do you tell your partner to hold that thought while you look for the Bullet? But I guess a little delay is worth the wait given the outcome.

  2. EZ
    August 5th, 2009 @ 11:18 am

    If you think this is great then you should try to the “Ring”… :p

  3. T
    September 29th, 2012 @ 4:58 pm

    Hi there!
    I just wanted to let you know, I read the first couple lines of the article and immediately felt awful for you. I’m in my 30s and have my fair share of experience, and I’ve net girls with the sane exact mindset, one I am dating now. They love to orgasm, obviously, but they can’t always have one from intercourse. I’ve learned this about women/ girls that have thus problem: 1. Tons of pleasurable foreplay. If he’s just tuning in Tokyo on your nipples, that’s a problem. I mean rubbing, caressing, kissing… Nibbling/ sucking… Your body, teasing you and finding out what really gets you going and what you like. 2. Oral sex – done guys are awful… I am not! Haha! I have been told several times about my magic tongue! :) but when it comes to him giving oral to you, TEACH HIM. Most guys don’t really understand what a clitoris (aka “clit”) is. Not to mention, if he’s good, and doesn’t have to be all clit all the time. Many irgasms have been given with my mouth, and its more than fun… It’s AWESOME! Haha! 3. Intercourse – if the guy just starts stabbing away at least 2 things are wrong: A. Small penis. B. he doesn’t care what you feel or thinks it feels good. There are times when me and my girl with just go very, very slow, cause I’m big, and work in a little at a time making sure it feels good and is comfortable. As we go along in our sex lives, she likes intercourse A LOT more, and we are working on multiple orgasms right now… You can’t just let a guy stab away. You have the pussy… I mean, power, here. If he’s hurting you, going too fast, of too deep, tell him. Let him know that if you don’t have a good time, neither does he.

    Those are just a few basics. Though there is one more… Get a guy who CARES about making you cum. For me, it’s practically a fetish! It I don’t make her orgasm, I’m not happy and can’t enjoy myself. That and if you find a guy with a great penis and a magic tongue, keep him for a whole and learn.

    You can screw in 100 different places and positions, but we should ALWAYS be learning if you want sex to be great. Only with a guy who REALLY knows what he’s doing can probably make you feel good the first couple times… Like me, but I’m taken! I know… I’m very modest and humble… But only about my sex skills! Haha!

    I truly hope you find a good guy that can rock you and it feel awesome! It’s not fair at all if the woman doesn’t enjoy herself… Not at all. I wish you the best, and remember, GIVE INSTRUCTIONS. Tell the guy you like to get licked here, or nibbled in there, or sucked on over here. Don’t be like, “In! Now out! Back in! Now out!”, that won’t work. But whispering, I love when you lick my clit like that, will burn that exact lick into his mind!

    So have fun!!! Don’t let the guy have fun unless you do, too!
    Bye, Hun!!!

  4. T
    September 29th, 2012 @ 5:00 pm

    Oh!!! And toys are just fine, and a ton of fun, while having intercourse!!! So are mirrors… ;)

  5. T
    September 29th, 2012 @ 5:01 pm

    Oh yeah… Sorry for the bad spelling! :)

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