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The Ideal Woman: What Every Guy Wants In A Girl (Part 1)

Posted on: July 16, 2009 | By Maiguy

The Perfect Girl

The Perfect Girl

These are just general ideas, and are by no means the definitive list of attributes that all women should strive to attain. However, in general, yes, most men want girls to be like this.

  1. Have a nice figure. I don’t think it’s necessary for a woman to have the media enhanced pinup body with perfect curves and perky breasts. What I’m talking about is a woman that is healthy. By healthy I mean that she has decided to live a healthy lifestyle by eating right and working out once in a while. Hitting the gym a few nights a week and choosing to eat properly go a LONG way in a man’s book. And don’t go overboard on the cardio, hit the weights up once in a while to tone. I know some of you girls strive to create that anorexic, marathon look with ribs and bones poking out, but most guys think that looks disgusting. A little meat in the right places is what every man wants.
  2. Take care of your skin. Along with eating healthy, I think woman should take care of their skin. That means getting enough sleep and using all those products you love to buy. I don’t know what the hell they are or what half of them do, but if they keep you looking toned and healthy, keep doing it. Get some sleep too. Those bags under the eyes add years to your age.
  3. Easy on the makeup. Girls that overdose on the makeup make guys’ worried. They’re thinking, why all the makeup? And also, what in the world does this girl actually look like once that layer of crap is taken off her face? This can leave some nasty surprises in the morning. I say best to keep it natural with a subtle touch of makeup.
  4. Have a nice personality. After all of the physical attributes that men seek out, what really keeps us interested is a nice personality. Men are truly animals though. Looks come first, and that is really all that attracts us in the beginning. However, after the initial chase and suspense is over and we’ve begun sleeping with you, we’ll definitely notice the personality more. And we notice in a big way. If you’re overbearing, the jealous type, super nerdy, super aggressive, bitchy, or just plain mean, we will bail. Probably leave you so fast you won’t know what hit you. And I know what people say, “Just be yourself”. But if that “self” is a psychotic, paranoid jealous freak, LEARN to be someone else. Seriously, just re-invent yourself and start over. Find a nice girl that always seems to get the man and emulate her.
  5. Learn to compromise. Guys are simple, rational beings. We like a few basic things in life: sex, sports, going out drinking, napping, TV. It really doesn’t get a whole lot more complicated than that. Women like MANY things in life. The list could go on. So while in a relationship, if you really think about it and do the math, with SO MANY interests, most of the decisions will focus on YOU. This is fine for us, guys like to please, but when it comes time for us to attend that sporting event with our pal, or night out drinking with an old friend, or just having sex when you don’t want to, learn to give a little. C’mon, a little compromise is good.

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8 Responses to “The Ideal Woman: What Every Guy Wants In A Girl (Part 1)”

  1. Karen
    July 16th, 2009 @ 1:12 pm

    Thanks Maiguy. No wonder all the fake girls get all the guys. :-)

  2. JanC
    July 16th, 2009 @ 1:43 pm

    I think they just want a hot girl..

  3. ny234
    July 16th, 2009 @ 8:45 pm

    i’d like to add to this list that if you look like Hyori Lee, all the other rules are out the window.

  4. nancy
    August 7th, 2009 @ 2:11 am

    That girl looks like a Me LOvE U LonGG TimE Thai hooker.

    Be yourself.

  5. spyra
    September 4th, 2009 @ 8:13 pm

    It’s true. Guys prefer pretty girls. In fact, this preference is driving modern day evolution:

    Women are getting more beautiful.

  6. chris
    October 20th, 2011 @ 7:05 am

    woman are the most selfish being on the planet and the weird thing is they dont realise it. Woman must learn to compromise and not just expect a man to please them. A relationship is a two way street, personally if a woman wont compromise in a relationship i am out of there!

  7. Lee
    July 26th, 2012 @ 10:50 pm

    Ladies, if you expect a guy to be perfect and you to “stay yourself”, you are going to stay yourself… Lonely and alone in your apartment watching soap operas and eating Easy Mac. If you look like a “love you love time” hooker and aren’t one, you’re already 8 steps ahead of Nancy and her 4 cats.

  8. Mark
    November 2nd, 2012 @ 12:49 am

    Was this written by a woman? Typical…

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