Where To Meet Quality Women?

Posted on: August 31, 2009 | By Maiguy

This question gets asked by friends and acquaintances all the time, “where do I go to meet a quality girl?” I think I speak for a lot of guys out there when I say it gets old just trying to meet women at bars and clubs. The scene is pretty repetitive and clubs tend to attract a certain type of girl, namely superficial and/or wild girls. That’s not necessarily a bad thing, the fact of the matter is a lot of really beautiful women are out at clubs because they want to be seen and have a good time with their friends. But to be honest, your chances of finding a nice and quality girl at one of these places are pretty slim. The environment there just doesn’t lend itself to finding a girlfriend. The music’s loud, lights are dark, you’re both intoxicated and you’re surrounded by a room full of other horny drunk dudes. In the eyes of any potential girl you’ll meet, she’ll probably think of you as just another one of these horny drunk guys. If you do happen to run into a good looking girl out at night and decide you’re going to give it a shot and try to talk her up, keep in mind that she has most likely been hit on at least a dozen times already and is probably not interested in hearing anything out of your mouth. Women are naturally on their defensive at a club. My advice to you, expand your realm of interaction with women by branching out and putting yourself in situations to meet women that is non-threatening to them and doesn’t involve alcohol. Minus the alcohol your judgment will be better and you’ll probably do a better job of weeding out those disgusting girls that only look good because you’re shit faced at the bar. Here are my suggestions to meet quality women in the city.

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Category: Sex & Dating

Tags: activities > Asian women > Dance > get physical > hobbies > Meeting Quality women > Meetup group > meetup.com > outdoorbound

Final Sale – Calvin Klein

Posted on: August 27, 2009 | By Maigal

Want to get cheap Calvin Klein’s clothes? Check out the final sale for these items. $30 and under. Happy Shopping.

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Category: Fashion

Tags: Calvin Klein Sale > designer > Fashion

The Best Places To Find Asian Women

Posted on: August 26, 2009 | By Maigal

Asian Girls Having Fun

A MyHappyFinds reader named John left me this question under Why Asian women date white guys?.

Hi Maigal,

During the past 3 months here in NYC it seems like a phenomenon has taken place out of the blue. On any given weekend day I will spot at least 30 mixed race couples comprised of an Asian woman with a White male. My question to you Maigal is, where are these couples meeting up? I mean are there special clubs or social events taking place here in NYC where they are meeting or is there a special Match.com version where Asian chicks meet White dudes? I happen to be a 30 yr old SWM and have no problem when it comes to dating but I never find myself in a situation to meet an Asian woman and would love the chance to do so. I would appreciate any information you can offer.

Answer:

Hi John,

Thanks for your comment on myhappyfinds.com. I’m not sure where all those couples are meeting up but I can tell you the best places to find Asian women.

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Category: Dining & Drinking, Nightlife & Events, Sex & Dating

Tags: Asian Parties > Find Asian women > Forbidden City > Meet Asian women > Oriented > Rbar > third floor cafe > Tom Cheng > White men > YesYas

Jimmy Choo Sample Sale Wednesday, August 26

Posted on: August 25, 2009 | By Maigal

Jimmy Choo Sample SALE!

To feel sexy, all you need is the right pair of shoes. Try Jimmy Choo…

Jimmy Choo Sample Sale
Aug. 26. Wednesday 1-6 p.m.
Metropolitan Pavilion, 125 W. 18th St., at Sixth Ave, NYC

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Category: Accessories, Fashion

Tags: Jimmy Choo sample Sale > sexy > sexy shoes > shoes

Why Do Women Cheat?

Posted on: August 25, 2009 | By Maigal

Are you a cheater?

I wish I could say I’m a perfect angel and would never cheat on my boyfriend, but that would be a lie. My name is Maigal and yes, I am a Cheater. In the past, if you were to ask me why I cheated my answer would have been simple, “Because my boyfriend forced me to cheat. If he just treated me right I wouldn’t need to cheat.” But the real answer had very little to do with him. It had a lot to do with my own insecurities. The need to feel wanted and appreciated led me to seek out attention and reassurance from other men. The question is, why wouldn’t I have dropped my boyfriend before I sought out other men? The answer is simple. I didn’t want to be alone. I’d rather have an asshole bf that doesn’t treat me right at my side than go about trying to find my soul mate alone. My answer may sound F#%k up, but I have seen other women who were stuck in bad relationships and afraid to leave because they didn’t want to start all over again. Dating can be fun but it’s also time-consuming and emotionally draining. You may have to date many bad apples before you find a good one in the bunch. Sometimes, you may never find that good one. The uncertainty of the future may scare some women into staying put in their f%#k up relationships. These are the same women who are in 3-4 year relationships and hope their asshole boyfriends will change and propose to them one day, but will probably end up heart broken because their man has decided to break up and date a younger woman. Now that you heard one reason why I cheat, what are some other reasons women cheat?

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Category: Sex & Dating

Tags: cheat > cheaters > cheating > platonic relationships > relationships > revenge

Taishanese pride

Posted on: August 24, 2009 | By Maigal

For those curious readers, here is one small piece of info about me. I’m from Taishan also know as Hoisan, Guangdong Province of China. Taishan is located in the southern part of China and it’s 140 kilometer west of Hong Kong. Most Taishanese live in small villages where they own a small piece of farm land given by Chairman Mao Ze Dong. It’s a neat place to visit and filled with culture. In China, the main spoken dialects are Mandarin and Cantonese but my dialect is Taishanese originated from Taishan obviously. Some Chinese think Taishanese sounds harsh and considered a low class language but I think it’s sounds cute. For those Taishanese out there, don’t be ashamed to speak Taishanese in public. It’s time to bring out the Taishanese pride.