Posted on: August 4, 2009 | By Maigal
No matter how much I bitch about my life, there is one thing in this world that I am grateful for. I am grateful to be born as an Asian woman. You can walk anywhere in this city, including the Village or Soho and you will see a lot of interracial dating involving Asian Women. I don’t know how to phrase it without sounding arrogant, but we Asian women are highly desired by all kinds of men. I asked some of my white male friends as to what it is they love so much about Asian women. They told me they love our exotic good looks – small sensual eyes, sweet plump lips, silky black hair, ageless skin and our petite little bodies that don’t blow up and become super-sized after pushing out kids. I’m not sure if I agree with the silky hair part because my hair is a bit nappy, but for the most part, they are right. Now, we know why white guys love Asian girls so much, but what is it exactly that some Asian women love so much about Caucasian men?
Here are my theories as why we love white guys:
- Height – If you like tall guys, it’s hard to find a 5’11″ nice looking Asian dude, because most of them are usually 5’7″ according to Wikipedia.org. Although Yao Ming is 7’6″, for the most part, we Asians do not have the tall genes. But you will be able to find a tall white guy in any corner you look. I went to an Asian party last weekend, and unfortunately, I’m sorry to say that most of the men were on the shorter side.
- Cultural Difference – A lot of the appeal of dating an Asian women is the allure of being introduced to a foreign culture. Well, for a lot of us Asian women, dating a white guy holds that same allure. The cultural differences can be fun and intriguing because you are able to learn something new that a lot of Asian guys would never be able to teach you.
- Have beautiful babies – If you look at any Asian magazine, those beautiful models are rarely ever 100% Chinese, Korean, or Japanese. They are often a Eurasian mix of half white and half Asian. What Asians consider beautiful is not the chinky look. They want the big eyes, tall nose, and porcelain skin. If you ever go to Hong Kong, there is no such thing as tanning lotion in their cosmetic stores. Instead, you’ll see a lot of skin whitening cream. I have heard that many Korean and Japanese parents let their kids go under the knife to achieve this Asian western look. Some also think if they have kids with white men, their kids will have the big eyes and tall nose. I know it’s a disgrace to see how some Asians don’t find their own ethnic features beautiful, but as a society, the westernized look is what is considered beautiful these days.
- Open minded – When you date a white guy, his family will be curious and fascinated by your unique culture. They would never judge you if were to tell them you are from Laos, Cambodia or Vietnam. They wouldn’t say, “Oh, that’s low class.” Even amongst Asians there is racism within different groups. I have found that Japanese, Chinese and Koreans think they are better than other Asian groups and consider themselves above them. I have a friend who was married to a Vietnamese guy. Her mother would actually tell her relatives that my friend’s husband was Chinese instead of Vietnamese. I also remembered having a fight with a girl back in college because she thought she was higher class than me because her family was from Hong Kong and mine was from Toisan, China. I should have whacked her in the head for being so ignorant.
- Bigger package – I know this is such an overused stereotype, but I’m sorry to say, when comparing Asian and white men in the package department, white men win. Now, not all Asian women want a massive love stick down there, but we do want a decent sized banana to take care of business. You know the phrase, “Once you go black, you never go back”? Well, I think once you go white, it’s hard to go back as well. Once you get used to something, it’s hard to switch unless you find something similar. I’m not saying all Asian guys have small penises because my Asian ex bf is both big and beautiful. You just have to do a thorough scavenger hunt to find them if penis size is important to you.
- Asian men don’t want to date you. I know some Asian girls who want to date Asian guys but have trouble finding one. These are the girls who are a bit on the chubby side or those girls whose appearances don’t fit the stereotypical definition of Asian beauty (ex. petite, pale, skinny, submissive). White guys in general are more accepting of Asian girls when it comes to weight and appearance. Maybe it just comes down to the fact that what Asians considered fat might not be fat in white guy’s eyes. I don’t know, but they are definitely less critical than Asian men towards us Asian women.
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