My Happy Finds – A place for Love, Life and Laughter

Happy Halloween Everyone

Posted on: October 31, 2009 | By Maigal

Maigal's costume - Flash Dance

Maigal's costume - Flash Dance

Happy Halloween everyone! Don’t get too wasted or too slutty. Have a safe and fun Halloween.

This year, my theme is Flash Dance and of course, I will be a flash dancer.   Not sure if I can dance to the Maniac song though but I will give it a try.   To dress like a flash dancer, you really don’t need to spend much because most of the stuffs, I’m sure you already have it in your closet.

If you want to dress like a Flash Dancer, you need the following:

  • t-shirt
  • body suit or swim suit
  • leg warmers
  • colorful pantyhose
  • headband
  • sexy shoes
  • plastic colorful earrings and bangles (if no plastic jewelries, metal works too)
Bookmark and Share

JayZ and Alicia Keys World Series 2009 Game 2

Posted on: October 31, 2009 | By Maigal

I don’t know much about baseball. All I know is if Derek Jeter needs another girlfriend, he can give me a call. Here is a video of JayZ and Alicia Key performing their new hit Empire State Of for the Mind at the World Series 2009 Game 2 in the Yankee Stadium on October 29, 2009. This song is pretty catchy. I like.

Bookmark and Share

Green Card Husband

Posted on: October 30, 2009 | By Maigal

Me Love You Long Time

Me Love You Long Time

I asked my mom last month, why she married my dad? She told me it’s because my dad is tall, charming, and handsome. But the biggest reason was he was able to bring her to America. She told me marrying a Chinese American man was every girl’s dream in China. It was their ticket out of poverty and an opportunity to bring all of her family members to the US for a better life. Let’s face it, if you are a farmer in China, your next generation will probably be a farmer. They don’t have as many opportunities as we do in America such as public schools, food stamps, and free health care for the poor. No matter how much the French talk shit about the US or how much the Iraqis want to bomb us, if given the opportunity to live in the United States, I think most of them would jump at the opportunity. The United States has become a superpower because throughout history we worked hard to build a foundation. The United States also made investments in other countries such as China and India which helped create their skilled labor force. Look at China now, they have become one of the most powerful countries to contend with. Yes, we bombed Hiroshima and Nagasaki in Japan; we bombed Iraq; we enslaved black people; we enslaved Chinese people to build the railroads, which I feel America never put any effort to recognize. If you look at history, every country did horrible things to each other. Look at Germany, does Hitler ring a bell? Anyhow, I can’t stand how some people bash America when other countries did far worse to each other. If you ask me, no country is innocent. Every country fights for money and power, it’s just that the United States has maintained its place as the most powerful nation. That’s why so many Mexicans and people from all over the world would do whatever it takes to come to the US.
Read more

Bookmark and Share

Sale 40% off on Ann Taylor Loft Sale

Posted on: October 29, 2009 | By Maigal

Sale 40% off

Ann Taylor Loft is having a 40% off sale.   Shop til you drop now.

Bookmark and Share

The Hoisan, Toisan, Taishan Song

Posted on: October 26, 2009 | By Maigal

I have been looking for this Taishanese song forever and I finally found it on this site Hoisan Ho If you understand Taishan ( a chinese dialect spoken by people who live in Taishan, China), you will find this song super funny. It’s written and sang by this guy Mihn Doi who is from Taishan, where Taishanese is spoken.

Bookmark and Share

Faking The Big “O”

Posted on: October 24, 2009 | By Maigal

Faking the big O

Faking the big "O"

If you have read my previous articles you should know that I’m a serial cheater.  Here is another confession that I need to make.  My name is Maigal and not only am I a cheater, but I am an “orgasm” faker.   I’m so good at faking that I deserve an Academy award for some of my past performances.   The truth is almost every woman has faked an orgasm as some point in her life.   According to the 10 women I recently surveyed on whether or not they faked the big O with their partner before, 9 of them responded “YES”.   The only one who said “NO” was a friend of mine who has only had one boyfriend who is currently her husband.   So why are so many women faking their orgasms?

Here are the top 5 reasons according to my survey:

  1. Speed up the process – Most guys think the longer they last, the better they are in bed.   I can tell you that’s a myth.   Quickies can be just as fun.   What good are you if you last so long but the girl is all dried up?  Most girls will fake an orgasm hoping the guy can cum faster and get it over with.
  2. Maintaining his ego – You know he is trying to perform every trick in his book to try to get you off but you just aren’t feeling it.  Some guys won’t stop trying until they know they have successfully completed their task.   In their mind, there is no such thing as failing to please a woman.  So what do you do? Fake it so he can stop trying.
  3. Sucks in bed – Some guys are just horrible in bed.   They have no techniques and don’t understand the concept of foreplay.  They have no idea what they are doing.  When a guy is really bad in bed, often the best thing to do is just fake it, finish the sex, and never see him again.
  4. New relationship – It’s hard for most girls to cum when they are not in a familiar place.  I think for women, reaching an orgasm can be more of a mental thing than physical.  When you are in a new relationship you don’t feel comfortable enough to instruct the guy what to do to please you.  Therefore, you fake it so he can think he’s doing a great job. (That’s only if you like him.)
  5. Incapable of an orgasm – According to Dr. Gail, only 20 percent of women are able to have an orgasm from intercourse alone.   Most women need some sort of direct clitoral stimulation.   For men who think their magic wand is the only tool to please women, they are wrong big time.  That’s why we come back to guys who know how to use their hands and tongue.

It’s much easier to tell when a man is enjoying his pleasurable moment than a woman.   But you can still tell when a woman is reaching her orgasm.  During her orgasm, her body becomes tense.   Her vaginal muscles contract around your penis and her vaginal fluid increases.   So if a girl is only screaming or moaning loudly, without any of the characteristics I just described, she is probably faking it and you probably suck in bed.

Bookmark and Share
keep looking »

Follow Us On...

Facebook Twitter MySpace RSS Feed
Join Our Newsletter

Support This Site

Most Popular

Categories

Shop