Yes, today is my birthday guys and I am ready to live it up tonight. I can’t believe I’m in my 30s. I am officially a “Puma”. Puma is single a woman in her 30s. Too young to be called a cougar and too old to be called a young lady.

How do I feel today? I do feel older in terms of physical appearance but in terms of personality, I think I am still the same old silly, clumsy, dorky and outspoken girl who is not afraid to say what’s on her mind. Now that I am older, I do feel I am more comfortable in my own skin. I know who I am, what I am and what I can offer. No insecurities here. Okay, maybe my body. I did gained a few pounds couple of months ago. Maybe that’s why I haven’t been doing anything naughty with anyone. Should I call myself a reborn virgin?

This year, I am grateful to have meet some really great people that I now considered my really good friends. During some difficult times last year, these people gave me the strength to be back to my happy self again. I am forever grateful for that. And of course, I am grateful to have my wonderful family. As much I want this and that for myself, I am just happy to be alive and healthy.

During the past two years, I went through many roadblocks in my personal and career life. I asked god when will this nightmare end? After watching this video in the morning about a man named Nick Vujici, who has no arms and legs and still live happily, I gained a whole new perspective on life. I realized my life is in my hands. I have the power to control which direction I want to go and the power to control my destiny. Although there are things that I can’t control, having a positive outlook on life really helps my emotions and understand what I need to do to make the best outcome of my situations. I can sit right here and place blame on a a$$hole who left scars in my heart and be bitter about it or continue finding what’s good for me. I think the best remedy to finding true happiness is to learn to love yourself. Don’t let anyone bring you down. Life is too precious to be sad. Life can be better if you just take a stand and make a change for the better.

Are you ready for MHF Pool Party on June 16th at the Grace Hotel in NYC? I expect everyone to be wearing their bikinis and speedos this time around. And ladies, just wear water proof make-up if you are afraid the water will melt your face. That’s what I’ll be wearing. Now, let’s talk about your body. Do you think you have a beach body to show off on the June 16th? If not, you still have 2 more weeks left to lose that extra pound and strengthening those flabby abs. I was browsing my brother’s company and found a link he saved on his “Favorite”. It’s a 9 min workout video for a killer body by Mike Chang. Whoever he is, his body is sizzling hot. I wouldn’t mind sliding my hands on those abs. Check out his video above.

When it comes to boobs and nipples, they are only sexy when associated with the female body.  When you think of boobs and nipples on a man, it is a bit unappetizing.  Men may like to fondle our fun bags, but we woman have no fascination with copping a feel on your oversized man boobs.  And seriously, no woman wants to date a guy that has bigger breasts than she does.  There are two reasons why men have man boobs.  The first reason is a hormonal fluctuation when a man has a bit too much estrogen in his body.  This can be treated by going through hormone therapy or getting plastic surgery to have their man boobs removed.   The second reason is excessive body fat.  This happens when men sit on their ass all day eating and drinking beer and forgetting about exercise. To get rid of their man boobs, there are three steps they need to follow.

1. Eat healthy.  A man’s metabolism begins to slow down after 25. Avoid sweets, beer and junk food. Try eating a well-balanced diet with some fruits and vegetables.
2. Cardio aerobic exercise.  A great way to burn off fat is to run, cross-country ski and bike. At a minimum, try getting off your ass once in a while and take a walk in the park.
3. Lift weights. You should focus on working your upper body. Do some bench press, pushups, and pull-ups. It’s a great way to tighten up your chest muscles and flatten out those man boobs. Plus, the gym is a great place to meet a lot of women. Check it out and see for yourself.

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1. Run for FREE. You don’t need to join the gym to stay fit.   Especially with the nice weather during the summer, why not go outside for a run.  As we all know, running is the best source of exercise to burn off those calories and stay slim.  I tend to go to central park or the east river trail for my run.  Around 6pm, there are a bunch of cute guys running on the east river trail.  Not only do you are get a wonderful view of all those great bodies running by you but you are getting in shape.  My trick to motivate myself to run more is to follow a fat runner.  If he/she can do it, I can do it too.
2. NYC events for FREE. Not having a job doesn’t mean you have to lock yourself at home because you can’t afford to go out.  There are a lot of free events offered by the city like concerts, movies, kayaking, dancing, parties and etc.  The city might be poor but it still offers all of these cool free activities for New Yorkers’ to do. You can watch a movie at Bryant Park or the Hudson River lawn every Wednesday and Friday.  You can kayak on the Hudson River.  You can watch the New York Philharmonic Concerts in Central Park.  For more free activities, take a look at the calendar on my site.  You will see a list of all the cool activities I picked out for you.
3. Drinks for FREE. It’s great being a female sometimes because one thing we have that men don’t are ladies nights, with free admission and drinks.   On Thursday evenings, Third Floor Café offers an open bar from 8-9 pm for the ladies.   Maru does the same sometimes. 4AM production tends to have open bar for an hour at their parties on Friday and Saturday too.  Circle Night club has free admission for women on Friday nights.  4AM production tend to have open bar for an hour on their event on Friday and Saturday too. If you want to see what Asian events offer open bars or other activities, you can visit www.clubzen.com for more info.
4. Dating for FREE drinks and dinner. I’m not saying you should use guys to get free meals and drinks but while you are on a hunt for guys, and dating around, its universally expected that a man should pay on the first date (As mentioned on my Top 10 Things Girls Shouldn’t Do On Their First Date, Guy’s Perspective). So why not let them? Also if he knows you are unemployed, he should reach for his wallet anyway. If he doesn’t, he’s an ass. You don’t need him.

That’s all the freebies I can think off.  If you know any cool events out there, let me know.

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Reasons why I love the summer.

Summer is my favorite season of the year.  Why?

1. It’s an excuse for me to break out those skimpy outfits that show off my best asset – my legs.
2. I get to wear trendy sun glasses which make me look stylish and cool, and also allow me to check out people on the street without them noticing me.
3. Summer is the time for sandals and flip flops, which I love so I can show off my pretty feet.

One thing I don’t love about summer is sun damage.   We should all be aware of how damaging the sun can be.   The sun can give you sun spots, wrinkles, dry skin, and more importantly, skin cancer.  To prevent sun damage, I have the perfect face lotion for you. It’s called Eucerin Everyday Protection Face Lotion, SPF 30.   It’s a face lotion but can also be use as a sunscreen.  It leaves my skin smooth and soft, without greasy residue.  This product feels expensive but I got it for only $10.  This product should be available in most pharmacies but I couldn’t find it in Rite Aide or CVS today.  Maybe you can try Duane Reade.  If not, you can always order it on Amazon.

It’s called the Bullet vibrator — but I call it “My Little Helper”.  It’s a small, shape like a bullet with a wire attached to a remote where you control the strength of the vibration in the bullet.  During sex, you just need to place it near your clitoris. With the help of the bullet stimulating your clitoris and the penetration from your lover’s penis, this is the best combo ever.  I guarantee you’ll be screaming with satisfaction. I was.

Okay, I know what you are thinking: ‘I’m too embarassed to buy that.’ In my opinion, if you are old enough to have sex then you should be mature enough to go into a sex shop and pick out a toy you like.  You should even make it an event with your lover to visit some sex shops.  This could bring back some excitement and fun to your boring love life. Come on, who doesn’t like sex?   Another option is to shop online.  Avoid the discomfort of going into shops if you are really a prude. I got my own very own Bullet at www.AdamEve.com.   It’s a good site and the stuff there is relatively cheap.  www.mypleasure.com is also a good site too.

I hope this will help those curious ladies.