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Find Singles at MHF Winter Flirt Party

Maigal — Sun, 05 Feb 2012 17:06:21 +0000

For all you single peeps,

Let’s start your year with a new love. It might be a long cold winter and it’s always better to have someone to keep you warm.

Join MHF Winter Flirt Matchmaking party on Feb. 8th at Professor Loft on 219 Second Ave to find your perfect match. It’s a fun, interactive, and a playful event. It’s the perfect Valentine’s gift for all your single friends.

PLEASE RSVP here to reserve your spot. Space is limited.
http://winterlockkey.eventbrite.com/
xoxo,
Maigal

Happy Song, Happy Maigal

Maigal — Sat, 04 Feb 2012 21:56:34 +0000

Sometimes when you are feeling blue, it takes a song like this to make you a happy person again.

40 Alone and Happy

Maigal — Wed, 01 Feb 2012 17:25:10 +0000

Lately I have been watching a lot of make-up tutorials from Queenie Chan who is a famous make-up artist and beauty columnist in Hong Kong. I love following her make-up tips but her words of wisdom about life, health and love really inspires me to be true to myself and be happy with whatever I [...]

Love You Long Enough For My Greencard

Maigal — Mon, 30 Jan 2012 02:31:22 +0000

I asked my mom last month, why she married my dad? She told me it’s because my dad is tall, charming, and handsome. But the biggest reason was he was able to bring her to America. She told me marrying a Chinese American man was every girl’s dream in China. It was their ticket out of poverty and an opportunity to bring all of her family members to the US for a better life. Let’s face it, if you are a farmer in China, your next generation will probably be a farmer. They don’t have as many opportunities as we do in America such as public schools, food stamps, and free health care for the poor. No matter how much the French talk shit about the US or how much the Iraqis want to bomb us, if given the opportunity to live in the United States, I think most of them would jump at the opportunity. The United States has become a superpower because throughout history we worked hard to build a foundation. The United States also made investments in other countries such as China and India which helped create their skilled labor force. Look at China now, they have become one of the most powerful countries to contend with. Yes, we bombed Hiroshima and Nagasaki in Japan; we bombed Iraq; we enslaved black people; we enslaved Chinese people to build the railroads, which I feel America never put any effort to recognize. If you look at history, every country did horrible things to each other. Look at Germany, does Hitler ring a bell? Anyhow, I can’t stand how some people bash America when other countries did far worse to each other. If you ask me, no country is innocent. Every country fights for money and power, it’s just that the United States has maintained its place as the most powerful nation. That’s why so many Mexicans and people from all over the world would do whatever it takes to come to the US.

When I was in college, a couple of my girl friends were offered $20K to be engaged to men in China so that they could come to America. But if you married that person, you would get $50k after they got their green card. That was the black market price 10 years ago. Now, a new scam has arisen to get a green card. Whoever thought of this scam is brilliant because it’s safe and requires very little money. I have noticed a lot of Korean and Chinese women apply for language school to learn English in the United States. This way, they can live in the United States with a student visa and hunt for the prey that will marry them and get them a green card. Many of these language schools, like the billboard ads you see on the subway, will take just about anybody who is willing to pay and they can stay as long as they like. What’s smart about this scam is once these women are approved for a student visa, which will last for 5 years, they can cancel all their classes and get their money back. Brilliant right??? Why pay $70k when you can come to the US for as little as $2k for the price of airfare and the registration fee. I know I shouldn’t generalize that most illegal immigrants are here to find a green card daddy because if you are 19 or 20 and applied to a real college for a 4 year degree, you’re probably legit. But women who are 25-28 years of age who want to come here to learn English, I find it a bit hard to believe. By that age, most women in those countries should be married with at least two kids. I feel I have to rat these women out. Their mission is to come to the US to find a guy who is willing to marry them so they can permanently stay in the US. I’m not saying these women are only after the guy’s green card. I’m sure they want to find someone they truly love and the green card – that’s a bonus! These women use an effective excuse to get the men to marry them as quickly as possible and a lot of men actually fall for it. The excuse is, “I love you so much. I want to be with you forever but my visa is going to expire soon and I have to go back to my country. We won’t be able to see each ever again. Boo hoo.” So what would any man with a heart say, “Don’t worry. I’ll marry you so you can stay.” That’s when she’s thinking, “JACKPOT! BINGO!” Don’t be lured into this trap. According to travel.state.gov website, “When you enter the United States on a student visa, you will usually be admitted for the duration of your student status. That means you may stay as long as you are a full time student, even if the F-1 visa in your passport expires while you are in America. For a student who has completed the course of studies shown on the I-20, and any authorized practical training, the student is allowed the following additional time in the U.S. before departure.” As long as these women renew their visa, they can stay here as long as they want. Even if their student visa were to expire, do you really think the INS will be knocking on their door? I don’t think so.

The conclusion of this story is that all women want to win the jackpot but you guys have to figure out if the jackpot is a scam or is it true love.

Be My Mr. Right Now

Maigal — Mon, 30 Jan 2012 02:07:59 +0000

Model Choi Ho Jin

Finding Mr. Right in New York City is like looking for the perfect job. You go out on interviews, sometimes with not even a call back after the first interview. Other times, you get called back in three times but still nothing permanent. It can feel like there’s no end in sight, until you land that perfect job with a great salary, ideal hours and work that you actually feel enthusiastic about. Sure, it’s great to land that perfect job but is there really such thing as perfect? Most of my jobs started off looking perfect. I enjoyed the people I worked with and the work itself but after awhile, I just start hating everything about it especially those meaningless, boring meetings that never seem to end. So what do you do? You start to look for another fulfilling job. It doesn’t make sense to just quit your current job because it’s tolerable and you like the salary for rent and expenses.

The same thing applies in finding Mr. Right. You date around till you think you’ve found “The One” to settle down with but within a few more dates, you realize… maybe you two aren’t the Brangelina perfect fit. So what can you do in this kind of situation? Based on my experiences and from the girls I know, they would actually stay in the relationship until they find a replacement, just like finding a better job, why leave your old one. It sounds selfish and F’d up but a girl’s gotta do what’s best for her so why not go on a “secret interview” with a Mr. Right Now?

I’m not saying we should play with other people’s emotions. I would never do that to a guy who is truly, madly, and deeply in love with me because I have more morals than that and besides, karma has a nasty sense of humor. I would do it only when both parties feel the same way and have that certain understanding. So… anyone interviewing?

Whatever You Want Eye Candy

Maigal — Tue, 10 Jan 2012 17:32:54 +0000

Being cute really does have its advantages. I was once pretty hot myself I might say. Please don’t puke! I remember going to the casino and guys would give me money to play. I didn’t know these men at all and they didn’t even expect anything from me. Yes, there is such thing as FREEBIES when you are hot. I would get free drinks from guys, dinner offers, spa packages, etc. Not only would I get freebies, but people were just nicer to me and I received more attention. This just goes to show you that being good looking has its advantages. Certain jobs are created because of beautiful people. For example, a porn star, stripper, go-go dancer and fashion/print model. All these occupations do not require you to even have a brain. Isn’t it great to be beautiful?

I do admit though, I am superficial. I love pretty things, especially HOT men. I recently met a gorgeous guy. He’s tall, handsome and charming. Gazing into his beautiful eyes and checking out his flawless face makes me want to say, “Gosh, you are so damn beautiful. I want to rape the shit out of you.” But of course, I didn’t say that because that would make me look desperate. LOL… I still have to maintain my integrity, you know? Although I didn’t do anything naughty yet with this guy, just having him siting next to me satisfies me already. He is simply my eye candy. I just want to look at him and smile.

Edison Chen Is A Pervert

Maigal — Mon, 14 Nov 2011 22:24:54 +0000

Edison Chen is a mega star in Hong Kong. He once claimed he was the 50 Cent of Hong Kong on his blog before his sex scandal broke three years ago. It all happened when he took his laptop to the computer store to get it fixed. All the naughty pictures and sex videos that he had with famous female celebrities were leaked all over the internet by the employees of that computer store. I saw some of his pictures and I thought he was the man. I wouldn’t mind kicking it with Edison Chen either. But it sucks for those female celebs because their vajajay were all over the internet and up close. I thought he was cute, and his package was pretty big compared to most Chinese men I know. I didn’t see anything wrong with taking naughty pictures with people you are dating. I do it all the time but I keep the photos, not them. NEVER LET A GUY KEEP NAKED PHOTOS OF YOU. HE WILL SHOW IT TO THEIR FRIENDS, EVEN ME.

Recently Edison was all over the news again for messing around with a 16 year old model named Cammi Tse. Edison Chen is 31 years old. In America, he probably would of gone to jail but in Hong Kong it is actually legal. The news broke out when Cammi Tse left her phone in a taxi. Naughty pictures and SMS texts of her and Edison got released to the press. Too bad this time, there weren’t any sex videos.

See naughty pictures of Edison Chen with Hong Kong females, Click HERE

Note: Don’t look at the link at work.

MHF Matchmaking Event – Find a date for NYE

Maigal — Mon, 14 Nov 2011 15:12:25 +0000

Another year is almost coming to an end, do you have that special someone lined up as the ball drop on 2012 ? Have no fear, MHF is here. Unlike your typical matchmaking event, we’re evolving beyond your standard crash and burn speed dating scene.

Here’s how it works:

Each sex will be provided with a unique set of matching QR code. It’s your mission to DECODE and hunt down your mysterious better half. The first 20 people to find their matching QR code will win a FREE shot.

- You MUST have a SMART PHONE to participate in this event. Just download “QR code scanner” application on your phone.

Drinks Special all night…..

Venue : Amber West Village (2nd Floor)
Location: 432 6th Avenue (Bet 9th and 10th street)
Directions: A,C,E,F,B,D train to West 4 (exist on 8th street)

Date: Tuesday Nov. 22nd
Time: 7PM – 11PM
Age: Must be 21+ to participate

Note: Space is limited. Order your advance tickets to ensure admission.
PRE-PAID (note: NO REFUND)

DEADLINE for Pre-Paid is Midnight Nov. 21st.
Ladies $10 / Bring a girl friend – $12 ($6 each) 3 female friend – $18
Gents $20 / Bring a guy friend – $30 ($15 each) – 3 male friend – $45

AT THE DOOR – $15 for ladies / $25 for Gents

Dress Code:
Ladies – Dress provocatively upscale
Gents – Business casual welcome.

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What is My Happy Finds Event?

We started this social network to help Asians meet other Asians in New York City. Whether you are single and ready to mingle, looking to grow your circle of friends or just… looking to meet new people, this is the perfect event for you.

Each month, we host a theme happy hour event where we help you break the ice to meet other people and of course to have some fun. Some of our most popular themes are Lock & Key, Naked Sushi and MHF Human Scavenger Hunt.

Where To Meet Hot Wealthy Singles in NYC?

Maigal — Wed, 09 Nov 2011 17:20:55 +0000

I got a text yesterday from this cute guy that I have the hots for. He goes, “What are you doing?” I responded, “Watching Millionaire Matcher“. He texted back, “You are so materialistic”. This really puzzled me because I don’t understand why I can’t like guys with money? Why do I have to be called materialistic just because I like the finer things in life? Money is not the only thing I like in a guy, I also need personality, looks, sincerity, intelligence and the list goes on and on. Maybe that’s why I’m still single? LOL! But being categorized as “materialistic” is so wrong. I wouldn’t go for a guy with just money. If that’s the case, I probably would have a sugar daddy in his late 40s right now and I probably wouldn’t be writing on this blog because I would be too busy shopping at Saks

So to all the people out there who are looking to meet some hot, wealthy singles, according to ny.eater.com article, here are 12 places you should check out.

Remember, all these places are not cheap. Don’t be expecting happy hour prices. The average drink is probably $14. Be prepare to spend. If you are going to be cheap, you might as well go to Verlain for your $5 Lychee martini, but the people you meet are probably people who only want to buy you discounted well drinks. You want to look your best when you go out to these places. It’s okay to be ugly just as long as you look polished and well-groomed. For the ladies, wear a sexy dress, get your make-up and nails done. For the gentlemen, a blazer usually does the job to cover up your fat or any imperfections you have. Nice polished shoes is a must. Good luck!

MHF Matching Event – Decode Me

Asian Women Annoying Habits

Maiguy — Wed, 12 Oct 2011 13:13:53 +0000

credit: AsianPoses.com

Things that bother Mai Guy:

1. Women that take pictures of every meal on FB. I am noticing a disturbing trend amongst Asian women. The combination of camera phones and FB has created the perfect recipe for one of the most annoying habits known to man. The need to photograph every meal, desert, snack, ball park nachos that a woman stuffs in her face. We get it, you are at a restaurant and you are eating a meal. Now stop photographing! No one gives a sh*t. In protest of this annoying habit I am going to begin photographing every mundane meal I encounter, i.e. my cereal in the morning with a glass of OJ, a bag of potato chips, my subway sandwich, Mc D’s 6 piece nuggets, etc. You get the point. This will be my protest against one of the most annoying things that I have to witness on a daily basis. For some reason, white girls don’t feel the urge to photograph incessantly or at the same rate that Asian women do, not sure why that is.

2. Women talking on their cell phone on the elevator. If I am forced to be a part of another woman’s conversation on an elevator ride I may just scream. I know there are men that talk on their cell phones as well, but for the most part a man knows to turn the conversational volume down a notch or to end the conversation in respect of the other people on the elevator. Women seem to be either oblivious or just don’t care. I have encountered way too many women who don’t mind talking about personal sh*t to their girlfriends at a volume that is way too loud to be comfortable. In protest of this annoying habit I may have to “engage myself” in their conversations whether they like it or now. “What , what is that? You weren’t talking to me? Well it didn’t seem like that when I was forced to be in your conversation!”

3. Asian girls that take the same silly girl pose in an attempt to be cute. You know, the “sad look, baby’s crying pose, I’m grumpy face…” Why do they have to do this? Once, maybe twice is cute. But when an entire night full of these childish poses occurs, it starts to border on just being plain weird. In addition to this one, girls that have to treat every night out as a personal photo shoot are annoying as hell also. I’ve been around women who can’t go 2 seconds without a camera flash going off. I’m literally embarrassed to be around them. Unless you are a celebrity or fashion model you probably shouldn’t have camera flashes in your face every 2 seconds.

That’s all for now, I have a lot more annoying things on my mind but I don’t want to come off as rude or angry. More to come later I’m sure.

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