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My Inaccurate Gay-dar

Posted on: June 28, 2011 | By MaiLove

A while ago, I went on a date with a guy because I thought he was gay. That’s right ladies; straight guys are so boring that I have to resort to finding a gay best friend. Let’s face it; gay guys are a straight girl’s best accessory. How have I come to this idea? After dating in NY for many meaningless amounts of years, there comes a time in every girl’s life when you just don’t want a hetero man. Why? Because they all come with the expectancy of sex in the end. If you’re a single girl and you meet a single guy, you just can’t be friends with them. It’s like the impossible. I mean, why would they want to be friends with you when they can screw you? But with a gay guy friend, you both have similar interests. Though you both like men, when you don’t want the company of them you can enjoy the company of each other. Thus, the idea of the gay best friend. It takes the pressure of sex or flirtation completely out of the picture, which is nice for once and without always having to think about the reactions and thoughts of how men think about you. Read more

Mark Your Territory

Posted on: June 8, 2011 | By Maigal


Every time I take my dog Bling out, he always ends up pissing on the fire hydrant at the corner of every building. Even on every tree too! Why? That’s just his way of marking his territory to show that he has been there. So how do humans mark their territory? They do it by giving a ring to a special person. This is called a “Marriage” for those people who don’t know. The ring signifies to others that you are off limits. Although, there are some people out there who don’t care if a person has a ring or not, morals don’t exist in these people’s lives. So the question is, if you don’t have a ring on your finger, what is another way to mark your territory? Take a good guess. The answer is a HICKEY. You’re probably thinking to yourself who the f&*k still gives hickeys nowadays? It’s kind of immature and uncool to have a hickey, but there are ladies out there who would still do it. For example, ME! Read more

How To Catch A Cheater

Posted on: September 2, 2009 | By Maigal

donna-summer-concert078smallRemember I told you that I was a cheater?  Well, I was the worst cheater in the whole world. Why?  My ex-boyfriend was a cyber stalker.  He was able to trace my every move thanks to what I can’t live without the most, “Technology”. We are in an era where technology has taken over the world.  I think if the government really wants to find someone, they can track them down quite easily. So the question is, “Have you ever suspected your significant other to be up to no good?” Here are a few tricks up my sleeve to help you track them down.
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Why Do Women Cheat?

Posted on: August 25, 2009 | By Maigal

Are you a cheater?

Are you a cheater?

I wish I could say I’m a perfect angel and would never cheat on my boyfriend, but that would be a lie.   My name is Maigal and yes, I am a Cheater.  In the past, if you were to ask me why I cheated my answer would have been simple, “Because my boyfriend forced me to cheat.  If he just treated me right I wouldn’t need to cheat.” But the real answer had very little to do with him.  It had a lot to do with my own insecurities.  The need to feel wanted and appreciated led me to seek out attention and reassurance from other men.  The question is, why wouldn’t I have dropped my boyfriend before I sought out other men?   The answer is simple. I didn’t want to be alone.  I’d rather have an a$$hole bf that doesn’t treat me right at my side than go about trying to find my soul mate alone.  My answer may sound F#%k up, but I have seen other women who were stuck in bad relationships and afraid to leave because they didn’t want to start all over again.  Dating can be fun but it’s also time-consuming and emotionally draining.  You may have to date many bad apples before you find a good one in the bunch. Sometimes, you may never find that good one.  The uncertainty of the future may scare some women into staying put in their f%#k up relationships.  These are the same women who are in 3-4 year relationships and hope their a$$hole boyfriends will change and propose to them one day, but will probably end up heart broken because their man has decided to break up and date a younger woman.  Now that you heard one reason why I cheat, what are some other reasons women cheat?

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