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Why Do Women Cheat?

Posted on: August 25, 2009 | By Maigal

Are you a cheater?

Are you a cheater?

I wish I could say I’m a perfect angel and would never cheat on my boyfriend, but that would be a lie.   My name is Maigal and yes, I am a Cheater.  In the past, if you were to ask me why I cheated my answer would have been simple, “Because my boyfriend forced me to cheat.  If he just treated me right I wouldn’t need to cheat.” But the real answer had very little to do with him.  It had a lot to do with my own insecurities.  The need to feel wanted and appreciated led me to seek out attention and reassurance from other men.  The question is, why wouldn’t I have dropped my boyfriend before I sought out other men?   The answer is simple. I didn’t want to be alone.  I’d rather have an a$$hole bf that doesn’t treat me right at my side than go about trying to find my soul mate alone.  My answer may sound F#%k up, but I have seen other women who were stuck in bad relationships and afraid to leave because they didn’t want to start all over again.  Dating can be fun but it’s also time-consuming and emotionally draining.  You may have to date many bad apples before you find a good one in the bunch. Sometimes, you may never find that good one.  The uncertainty of the future may scare some women into staying put in their f%#k up relationships.  These are the same women who are in 3-4 year relationships and hope their a$$hole boyfriends will change and propose to them one day, but will probably end up heart broken because their man has decided to break up and date a younger woman.  Now that you heard one reason why I cheat, what are some other reasons women cheat?

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